Seconds turning into minutes, minutes into hours, hours into days, days into weeks, and then weeks into months and months into years but I am still on the first step of the ladder. Last night, I watched 'The Story Of God with Morgan Freeman' and it made me realize that when we start losing faith in God, we start losing faith in ourselves. Believing in God is believing in yourself. I didn't mean to defy the thoughts of atheists. Everyone has their own way of thinking and believing in something that is invisible and non-existent. I respect their perspective. Even one of my best buddies is an atheist. She cannot restrict her room of faith in one murti (God's statue) but that doesn't mean she has no faith in any positive power. She believes that there is existence of some positive power. Though I think the same but I don't want to tag myself as an atheist.
We can't force people to change their outlook. It is only the distinct thoughts and perspectives that makes one different from others.
Former days I was preoccupied with messy thoughts and was unfocused. My faith in God was vanishing, spiritualism is now replaced with materialism. I want to restore that faith, that hope I had in something when I was a child. So to rekindle the spark of life I will make some promises to myself and will face some week challenges that are gonna help me to be a better person and help me in achieving daily goals of my life. We will take it as a fun task. Don't get serious!
This is not for me but for all of us. Lets make our life more purposeful and meaningful. To give a great start I have thought to share an inspiring story, lesson or talk about some beautiful place along with the week challenge.
WEEK CHALLENGE 1: Get up early
It's gonna be like we gotta sleep at 11:00 p.m. and wake up at 6:00 a.m. and then enjoy our morning time, rock our rest of the day. It's not a pretty simple thing especially for our freaking generation. But it is better to accept your bad habits now and turning them into good ones than to deeply regret about them after 30, 40, or 50 years.
Our waking up schedule will be like this: (From Monday to Sunday)
DAY WAKE UP TIME
MONDAY 7:00 a.m.
TUESDAY 6:45 a.m.
WEDNESDAY 6:30 a.m.
THURSDAY 6:00 a.m.
FRIDAY 5:45 a.m.
SATURDAY 5:30 a.m.
SUNDAY 5:00 a.m.
You can create your own and can follow it every week. Give yourself some time to take a hold on this habit of waking up early.
A few months ago, I had read Robin Sharma's 'Who will cry when you die?'. It's a compilation of life lessons he learned from his another book namely 'The monk who sold his Ferrari'. The lessons are really effective and influencing. I would love to share his
Get up early advice to people from his book. He says, 'Getting up early is a gift you give to yourself'. It has the power to transform your life. There is something very special about the first few hours of the morning. He encourages people to join the "Five o' Clock Club" that will allow us to start controlling our day rather than letting our day controlling us. Joining this club has helped many people to improve the quality of their lives and do the things that they love to do but had somehow never found time for. We can reconnect with our soul, beautiful thoughts and imagination that we feel are lost while managing our disorganized life.
To follow your waking up schedule regularly you need to focus on the quality rather than quantity of your sleep.
Four tips by Robin Sharma that can help us sleep more deeply:
1. Don't rehearse the activities of your day while you're lying in bed trying to get to sleep.
2. Don't eat after 8:00 p.m. (If you have to eat something have soup)
3. Don't watch the news before you go to sleep.
4. Don't read in bed.
Don't give up. Saying that you tried to get up early but gave up after seven days because it was just too hard is like saying you tried taking French lessons for a week but gave up because you could not speak the language by then. Life change takes time, effort and patience. But the results you will receive make the initial stress you experience more than worth it.
This is all I could get from the chapter in his book and hope that his wise words can help us in some way or the other.
And I've got a great story from his book which never fails to create a shift in ones perspective.
One day, according to an old story, a man with a serious illness was wheeled into a hospital room where another patient was resting on a bed next to the window. As the two became friends, the one next to the window would look out of it and then spend the next few hours delighting his bedridden companion with vivid descriptions of the world outside. Some days he would describe the beauty of the trees in the park across from the hospital and how the leaves danced in the wind. On other days, he would entertain his friend with step-by-step replays of the things people were doing as they walked by the hospital. However, as time went on, the bedridden man grew frustrated at his inability to observe the wonders his friend described. Eventually he grew to dislike him and then to hate him intensely.
One night, during a particularly bad coughing fit, the patient next to the window stopped breathing. Rather than pressing button for help, the other man chose to do nothing. The next morning the patient who had given his friend so much happiness by recounting the sights outside the window was pronounced death and wheeled out of the hospital room.
The other man quickly asked that his bed be placed next to the windows, a request that was complied with by the attending nurse. But as he looked out of the window, he discovered something that made him shake: the window faced a stark brick wall. His former roommate had conjured up the incredible sights that he described in his imagination as a loving gesture to make the world of his friend a little bit better during the difficult time. He had acted out of selfless love.
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